Today is my brother’s and his wife’s 22nd wedding anniversary today. So their eldest daughter BK is 21 years old as of Wednesday. Unfortunately, being disowned by my brother and his wife, this is one wedding anniversary I want to forget for the rest of my natural life. My brother and his wife, and kids are no longer welcome in my life after all these years after disowning us after my last Thanksgiving visit in 2008 where my dad, his wife, and sister were there as well that last, not so wonderful Thanksgiving. All I remember with my brother and wife, and kids, is the emotional abuse that I took from his wife every time I was there. I could not believe what was going on inside the family that was hidden for years about my now disowned niece – the eldest. I remember having a short relationship with my eldest niece until all of a sudden she was no longer a friend of mine on Facebook. Apparently my brother and his wife were still in her life and she was not telling me, my dad’s wife, and my sister the entire truth about her relationship with her parents and sister and brother. I was greatly disappointed and alarmed at first until I talked to my sister about it. I highly regarded my eldest niece too while she was growing up but I do not anymore. Anyway…
The family I am speaking of now, my brother, his wife, and their three kids – now adults themselves now – are dead to me and they are not welcome in my life in the future. My brother needs to divorce his wife!!!! She broke up the family and dragged our name into the dirt, mud, or quicksand – whatever word anyone wants to use. His wife is a bitch! She is bad news!!!! The marriage should not have ever happened but of course his wife hid her illnesses all these years until most recent. It has been 3 years now since my brother has disowned my dad, my dad’s wife, my sister, and me, and it has been since my nephew was 8 months old, they disowned my mom and my mom’s husband.
My brother and his wife’s 22nd wedding anniversary is one I want to forget for the rest of my life. I am so pissed at them big time.
